Relationship???

Has anyone ever wonder what it takes for a relationship to actually work???

1) Time

2) Commitment

3) Emotions

4) Unconditional Love

Anyway, some would say why I asked about this question and comes out of the attributes and definition is heavily due to the fact my recent involvement in a relationship seems to draw me to all these words and issues. Time, how is time spent together is right or how much time spent is enough? It is selfish of us to expect our other half to devote more time with us? What is the real essence behind this? What is considered quality time??? How about our time with our friends??? Do we have to put aside time with friends to make time for our love ones???

With that comes the part about commitment, how much of effort, time and devotion are we willing to commit ourselves into? There is always a question about this "what if he/she is not committed and I am committing so much???" Should I measure it with that or should I question commitment using that Benchmark??? Does time, effort and devotion equates to Commitment???

Emotions has a heavy part in relationships too. We are all human being and psychologically and physiologically, our emotions plays a part. Its Emotional and Spiritual. I throw our tantrums to show our unhappiness, that's emotion. We show our concerns to our Love One and that's emotion. We cry with our Love One and for our Love One and that's emotion.

Unconditional Love, the big word in this whole thing. Unconditional Love at any point in time is not selfish, its not impatience, its not attention seeking. It's Absolutely Unconditional. So the rest of the earlier expectation does not fit in here. If you are willing to walk down this path to be loving someone Unconditionally, then don't set expectation, because it will hurt even more and the sense of betrayal will get the better of you. So what is my point??? If you want to get into a relationship, be prepare to self out all your efforts of commitment, time, emotions and most important of all, unconditional love for that person. Don't expect anything in return but just remember that God is in control of everything.